Why is it not a sin?
Look around you? What do you get to see? Pairs holding hands, head to head and having cozy chats and so on.
Everything is fine. Everything is so beautiful and fresh at first. And slowly it starts becoming lifeless. You can see the same guy whom you say 2 months back visitng the cofee shop with another new chick and sometimes with the old one you remember seeing earlier. He can’t risk the chance of breaking up with the old one as she might come in handy when the new one’s out of town.
She’s got all the trust in the world on him. But when a friend asks him about it, he gives the most slap-winning answer saying that it’s not a sin and all guys do it in the world and love’s different from fliritng and getting laid with many women. Moreover he encourages his friends or younger brothers to follow his foot steps by giving them the address of the “awesome place”
And what more? He would have been married to his so-called love, but when he gets the golden opportunity and hike in his career to go abroad, he makes sure that he doesn’t take his wife along, atleast for the first 6 months. Now he’s a free bird having the most envious life any guy would literally crave for. Going to the spa, going to a strip-tease bar, hanging out with blonde bikini babes on the beach and what not?
What happened to all the lovely words and promises he made? Doesn’t her innocent face flash everytime he gets tempted to hit the sack with a bomb? Or isn’t he worried that the same could happen to his sister or daughter in the future when some other guy with a typical attitude breaks the same kind of trust as he’s doing to his wife now? Or what would have been of him if his father had cheated his mom the same way?
Lust ruins love. World would have been heaven if lust had been as unidirectional as love is. This multidirectional lust towards all women in this world is the biggest worry every woman has.
And after doing every single mischief in his work place, he slips back home like an innocent kitten hungry for milk and starts cuddling his wife. ‘Get your dirty hands off me, you two-faced traitor’ I wish every girl had the courage to say this to men and walk-off forever.
But what can be done to wipe the pains of a woman. “Can’t live with them. Can’t live without them!”