What is love and what is lust?
If people are asked for the definition of love, end up giving the definition of lust. Because that is how the two words have become almost similar to most of them.
Let us start with Lust. Lust is rhyming with dust. And thats how it is. If there is a relationship, this lust has got to occupy the least percentage of it and love has to occupy the most. Lust is something which is almost like loving and caring about your comforts and pleasures more than your partners. Lust is somewhat selfish. You crave for a body, and not for the soul. It guides people in all wrong directions.
Before starting about love, ask yourself this question. Who had been more giving and who had been more taking? The person ridden by more giving is an ultimate example for somebody who is in love and the person who is more of a taker is an ultimate example for lust. They say getting physical is making love, not making lust! And making love here is not all about quenching your thirst. It is a reciprocation as to how much you love your girl or man. You care the least about yourself and shower more and more love to them physically. When one is able to implement this in making love, then automatically one can learn to give more to their partner in each and every simple thing. They would end up finding happiness in making the other happy. This is what is expected from each one of you, instead of using love as a simple tool to satisfy their own needs. Life would be much lovelier and happier when you sacrifice your needs and give more to your partner and your partner in turn sacrificing all their needs and giving to you more in return. There goes a perfect balanced love life!