Indian love policies are totally rotten
We blame the government that they are not fit to do things in a just and honest way without corruption. Before that indian men must ask themselves if they had been very just in their personal lives. If you are not right yourself, then why expect justice from others?
Sheetal, Priya, Neha, Rita,…………… Are the names of the girls that were cheated and dumped by you flashing on your mind? If the love is not perfect, then you can move on. But men here, take this as a hobby. To ruin every pretty girl’s life!
You should actually overhear the conversations boys have between their friends. “There is this damn hot chick in the next class. Man I wanna enjoy her.” And then goes a vulgar description about her. The next day he approaches this girl with a bunch of roses and sings poems about her like,”Seriously, you are the most wonderful person I have ever met. I swear on my mom, I will not ditch you. I swear on you that I will talk to my parents about marriage as soon as we get to finish our studies”. And then the girl falls flat for the guy thinking,”Oh, what an honest guy! I must accept him as my life partner.” And she falls into the pit. And the girl trusts the guy from the bottom of her heart, lives sincerely to him. Meanwhile, the guy carefully plans when to call her over when his parents are not at home and he along with his friends hide this secret cam in the corner of the room with a clear view. Apart from that there are these intimate pictures, messages and stuff which the guy keeps in store. An still, the worst part is simultaneously he plans to hook another hot chick from another classroom, and another hot chick from another class room and so on. He would have short-listed some 10 girls in his “next target” list.
Meanwhile this innocent girl falls a prey to his trap,and guess what?? Before she knows it, her pictures are all over the net. And now this guy goes about continuing to vulgarly describe the girl to his friends not even ashamed that certain things are supposed to be kept private. And one point of time the guy tells his friends, “Hey man, am all bored with the same old sheetal. I wanna try Ritu.” And the history repeats all over again.
Meanwhile, he breaks up with this girl and starts black-mailing her with her stuff. The most horrible part is that even the guy’s friends start black-mailing her not even a bit ashamed that she was their best friend’s girl. And there are still cases where the girl’s marriage gets ruined and she commits suicude unable to bear the shame. There are even some more cases where these jobless guys track down these girls who apparently would have been married with kids. They start blackmailing these women too. There is no end to a man’s lust!
But guys remember this. You too will have a family in the future. You have a mom, maybe a sister, in the future, a wife and daughter. Things can never be the same. You might get into a trap someday too.
Indians take proud of their culture and abuse the western culture. When a girl is raped, the reasons argued are she was wearing a western outfit or showing her figure. Do these give licence to rape her???? I do not generalise but 99 per cent of Indian male are having a mentality of enjoying carefree love life before marriage and ending up searching for a decent virgin girl as a bride. The worst part about India is even girls feel that obeying the rules of their husbands and bearing the domestic violence are their duties. How stupid!! and these girls touch the feet of the husbands who cheat them.
Blackmailing the girls is not a current scenario. Earlier post cards were sent by the relatives or the boys to say past of a girl to her in-laws. And in today’s high tech era. we have the powerful medium of internet which has its own pros and cons. But more cons for girls, I must say. Boys think that it will ruin the life of a girl if he would post her pics and info on the social and public webs. These too could not result in such cases like suicide by the girls, if our people would have understood the equal rights of males and females in the culture. But our great Indian culture is all about worshipping a maniac boy and never questioning what he does. We are far behind even in imagining about opposing marital rap!!
Of course the male are the problems but it is not good to only abuse them. They deserve more part of blaming but we should also blame the parents, especially mother, being a female she must teach her son respecting the females and nurturing with equal rights. But how can we imagine this from the son preferring parents who do not hesitate to kill female foeticide???? The parents of the girls should also warn the girls about potential traps and how to judge the person. Attracting to the opposite sex is not abnormal. It is natural. Relationship with a boy is not wrong but relationship with a WRONG PERSON is wrong. Again for this we can not expect only from the parents, our school and education system should also be practical, providing enough skills for living a good life rather than making us parrots. I am not saying that we should teach in the school how to attract opposite sex or to encourage such relationships. But understanding an individual is a must. Not only boys but some females are problematic and they feel good when other girls are blackmailed by the boys.
In case of cheating a girl friend, it is too easy for the Indian boys to trap young naive girls. Just say some loving words and she would be yours. Trusting you even more than herself. When a girl loves someone truly she sacrifices for everything… and the jerk takes advantage of this. He wants to have sex with his girlfriends so that he does not have to pay to the prostitutes. Just say some good lines and she would be ready to do everything. When she does not ready for having sex, some emotional sentences are used ‘ Don’t you trust me? Is this your love?’ and in the fear of losing her love the girl agrees for that. And the boy put those private moments on the net. What the girl feel is hard to imagine.. the whole world questioning her, her parents reputation and the biggest thing is the emotional trauma she goes through which nobody even considers. Someone whom she loves more than herself breaks the trust and put her private photoes on the public web!!
Ohh God! When all these will be stopped??? When India will actually live in 21st century???
Laces of young girls are molested, abused and raped everyday. But for stopping all these we have to stand for our own rights. Let us not let these male jerks abuse us anymore. Educate (in real sense) as many girls as you can and make them stand to have their stay.
Sorry for such a long comment but I still feel that I missed lot more points. The situation of Indian girl is really pathetic. But let us think positive and be optimistic. Let us make India a country to live happily for all girls.