How to differentiate between a crush and a love
How to differentiate between a crush and a true love? Everybody would have discussed this topic at least once with friends. Crush and Love are like two poles apart. So never confuse the terms with each other.
The key fact one must know here is that you can never say initially if what you are undergoing is a crush or a love. In other words, love starts with a crush! Remember the butter-fly feeling in the stomach or the unusual sudden jolt in your body when you spot your crush? This is the exact sensation and symptoms of a crush, not love! You can’t stop thinking about what happened earlier that day and her smiles goes on and on inside your head. You secretly spy on your crush and begin to blush when she spots your spying on her. This is what we call as a crush. This may or may not turn into a love!
Now what is love? Love comes with age. When your crush begins to ripen it yields a fruit called love. You no more have the initial excitement. You no more have the feelings of butterfly. The feelings that you are undergoing now are much more intense. It sort of pains your heart. When you are still in a crush, you end up realizing that life would be so beautiful with your crush. But, when you are in love, you end up realizing that you have no life without your love. The feelings of love is painful. It’s no longer exciting or thrilling. It pains. It brings tears to your eyes. You feel as if your heart is being crushed from within. You cannot bear it when your loved one is in pain that you would feel like stealing it from them and enduring it yourself.
Any day love is better than the crush. There is no first-sight love. Everything in the beginning starts as a crush. All crushes fade away, except one which matures into a beautiful, paining, yet comforting love.