How can I be a family man and a great lover?
This is a problem a lot of couples are going through. They get married, find themselves in a whole lot of responsibilities and having children and finance and stuff. There is absolutely no time for the old love. Wiped out, tired and barely make it to bed at night.. “Where did my relationship go? Where did my wife go?”.
Ok. Choose your wife before she was your kid’s mom. Put your wife first. Remember her? So many people get married and they think that marriage is just popping out kids, responsibility and stuff, househols work and job…
Remember that person you wanted to be with? Honesty, you think your biggest responsibility is being a parent. You are to love your children and provide a stable home. And you cannot do that if you forget about your wife and neglect your relationship. You got to remember each other first. I know it sounds harsh, but kids come second. What they need to know is that you love them and they need you both to be there for them.
So how can you stay romantic? Well, what did you do in the beginning? Did you date? Did you go to a movie? Did you have fun? Start doing that again!
Buy her flowers and pretend that you are dating and not married. Do little things to show her that you still care for her. Does she like flowers? Does she like you to brew her up a coffee in bed? Does she like to hear you say “I love you”?
What did you do before? What did she like about you before?What special things did you do before you had kids, responsibilities, household and stuff? Those are the things you need to do now in order to rekindle the old flame.