Love, Dating and Relationships

   This is a caution to all women who don’t have the least idea as to what they are doing in life. Rophynol which is commonly known as “roofies” in the local Auatralian slang can be given another notorious name know as the “date rape drug”.

  The roofies is a special drug used against literally bird-brained women, who go trusting every single man they talk to. But the wicked part is that none of the girls are able to say men right from wrong, which is a different issue. So no point blaming the poor victims alone. This can be done by your very own boyfriend whom you trust from the core of your heart.

   So coming back to the topic, the roofies is a very powerful drug that when spiked on a woman could send her to semi-consciousness , 45minutes after which the drug has been slipped. So this could be the perfect opportunity for your good-for-nothing boyfriend to actually sexually assault and create evidences with which you are doomed for life.

  Apart from that, you could be left with a permanent memory loss of the incident or even coma if taken in large amounts along with alcohol.

  So girls, please understand one thing! Don’t take men for granted. All the roses and lovely flattering words about you are just fake. They are after you for just one thing.

This is one of the most interesting shows that you can catch on Discovery Travel and Living . A show which basically deals with newly wed couples who feel that their love’s dead. But fortunate for them, the love expert is right on track to provide them with the most exciting love challenges and tasks so that they revive their old, lost love in a matter of two weeks.

The first step of the show is the couple in need is given a week’s time to collect evidences about each other without their knowledge as to what drives them nuts. In one particular show, the girl’s complaint about the guy was that he was a complete jester and ends up embarrasing her in the public. So she has to collect evidences of his jester-like activities without his knowledge through videos. The guy’s complaint about the girl was that she had become a cold fish and she’s never romantic like what she was before. So he sets out to collect evidences of how she refuses to be lovely to him.

By the end of the week, the couple submits its evidences to the love expert and he reveals to both of them as to what their partner feels is wrong with them. In the next step, he prescribes a remedy for both of them. The Guy was asked to act polite and elegant and the girl was asked to pole-dance every night for a week.

Apart from these, the couple had to undergo varying other sets of difficult love challenges and by the end of this 2 week treatment they were as good as new.

They say a woman came from the rib of a man. So shouldn’t she also be his backbone, wiping away his pains, kindling confidence, igniting the lost-strength, or reviving the faded happiness?

“Yeah. That’s true. But all the above automatically happens when she sleeps with me. She needn’t waste my time giving boring lectures”. I can hear this exact line going through every guy who read the first line of the blog.

So thats all a guy expects out of a girl. Who wants to waste time and money on a toy thats meant to give only physical happiness and nothing else?

There’s a whole lot of them waiting for an opportunity, standing aimlessly on the roads in India, commenting on the women who pass by, irrespective of their ages, just to annoy them and find ultimate joy out of it. When asked why, they answer back saying that they know for sure that no girl is going to fall head-over-heels in love with them and satisfy their needs, so they could etch out atleast 10% happiness when compared to the 100% happiness which they get out of getting laid.

Wicked, eh?

Look around you? What do you get to see? Pairs holding hands, head to head and having cozy chats and so on.

Everything is fine. Everything is so beautiful and fresh at first. And slowly it starts becoming lifeless. You can see the same guy whom you say 2 months back visitng the cofee shop with another new chick and sometimes with the old one you remember seeing earlier. He can’t risk the chance of breaking up with the old one as she might come in handy when the new one’s out of town.

She’s got all the trust in the world on him. But when a friend asks him about it, he gives the most slap-winning answer saying that it’s not a sin and all guys do it in the world and love’s different from fliritng and getting laid with many women. Moreover he encourages his friends or younger brothers to follow his foot steps by giving them the address of the “awesome place”

And what more? He would have been married to his so-called love, but when he gets the golden opportunity and hike in his career to go abroad, he makes sure that he doesn’t take his wife along, atleast for the first 6 months. Now he’s a free bird having the most envious life any guy would literally crave for. Going to the spa, going to a strip-tease bar, hanging out with blonde bikini babes on the beach and what not?

What happened to all the lovely words and promises he made? Doesn’t her innocent face flash everytime he gets tempted to hit the sack with a bomb? Or isn’t he worried that the same could happen to his sister or daughter in the future when some other guy with a typical attitude breaks the same kind of trust as he’s doing to his wife now? Or what would have been of him if his father had cheated his mom the same way?

Lust ruins love. World would have been heaven if lust had been as unidirectional as love is. This multidirectional lust towards all women in this world is the biggest worry every woman has.

And after doing every single mischief in his work place, he slips back home like an innocent kitten hungry for milk and starts cuddling his wife. ‘Get your dirty hands off me, you two-faced traitor’ I wish every girl had the courage to say this to men and walk-off forever.

But what can be done to wipe the pains of a woman. “Can’t live with them. Can’t live without them!”

Have you girls ever wondered how men can so easily glide in love life and get what they want eventually? You know what they want from women, don’t you? If you do, then this blog is worth a read.

Lets never blame any other country other than India. They have a way with dealing with love and making love. And this “them“ implies both men and women, ofcourse.

If you had seen the movie “Hitch” starring Will Smith, then recall the scene where Albert seeks the guidance of Alex (Will Smith) to win over his lady love and also the leading executive, Allegra Cole. Its such a touching scene where he tells Alex that its unbearable that the love of his life is waking up with the wrong man every morning, and yet he wished that she were happy. This is the context that i want to highlight in this blog.

Outside India, irrespective of being a man or a woman, there are no differences and no issues concerning their love lives. The man accepts a woman even though he knows that she’s been with a lot of other men. He accepts her even after knowing that she been intimate with a million other men. The only criteria here is LOVE and not whether she’s as good as new.

But what do we have here in store for the women in India? Indian men wait upto 28yrs, have all the fun they want, cheat all the girls they want to (and give the excuse that the girls were lust-minded, and so its not their fault), use love as a license to walk into the bedroom, spill money on call-gals and finally they end up asking their mom and dad to search for a nice, decent, traditional gal who doesn’t even know the spelling of sex and who is reserved and timid so that he doesn’t have to endure being possesive when she chats with men.

And in turn when a girl just smiles or says ‘hi’ all by herself to a guy, there is a huge jubilliation that some dirty slut has asked him for a night ou.

Wow! There is no other word to express this. This is the reason why India is still an underdog. While Indian  guys waste their time planning which girl to attack upon next, men abroad are planning how to keep their neighbourhoods clean. Physical relationship is not on their mind 24 x 7 like how it is here.

Just ponder on this thought.

I really wanted to emphasize on the dirty culture that prevails amongst IT companies. You would have known this survey that a thousand ton of condom was taken from a mnc sewage. I can understand exaggeration and fake stories prevails which blows up things and becomes media’s top stories. But we need to get into mind that there won’t be fake stories without actual pollen. So there are things going around these IT giants. I have gone through these instances since I work in IT industry too. It really astonishes me when married people and committed fellows are looking out for options. I was really astounded to see a pair being intimate in the car park and I asked my team lead if we can do something. My Team lead said we cannot do anything since that was happening with mutual consent. But I never believed this until I saw myself. There are so many reasons why this is happening and last year’s hot topic was that IT young women said no to extra marital affairs. One of the main reason is people are just bad and are desperate longing for more. So we can never help this sector because this is going to remain sick forever.  The others are trapped in an emotional trauma where they get caught in emotional imbalances.

So stay away from all tempting situations and always remember you have someone special for you at home. When you find someone making attempts towards you try to avoid it at the earliest. Don’t let it grow and frown later. I am not really sure about the other sectors but IT is on its peak. BPO’s are the mother cause which kick started this evolution which slowly moved into the IT domain. Most of the BPO’s operate in the night and people become victim for this cozy timing. It really puts me in odd situation when I get comments from readers asking about their extra marital affairs and wanting to know if that is correct. The worst part is I am emails from women too. They too have their own reasons for switching partners. So the lesson for the day is do have a periodic check on your spouse and it is no harm in having a clear picture. If your person is an IT employee then periodic checks should be changed to regular checks. Happy loving.

This generally occurs in a typical Indian family where all the brothers and sisters live to together with their husbands and wives in the same house. The root cause for fights between a husband and wife starts here. It is either a fight between the mother-in-law and the daughter-in law regarding house work or else between father and son regarding finance or else between the two brothers as their wives prodded the husbands to ask for a share in the family or between the two daughters-in laws as to who is more beautiful and more efficient.

Woah! No wonder people those days fought like cats and dogs.Doesn’t that make you want to go alone with just your wife and kids? Think of all the advantages. No one to interrupt in your personal life. No one to scold your wife even if she skips a day’s breakfast. No one to keep complaining and groaning about the others. That certainly adds to your peace of mind. And most importantly, the relationship and romance in your married life will certainly take a wild leap and enable you to more loving and sweet to your wife

There are a few people who are a nuisance to a person’s love. Neither do these idiots stay sincere in their love, nor do they like others being sincere. If you badly want to develop a very beautiful relationship, then you got to kick aside these unwanted elements even if they are your parents or friends. Follow your heart, not other’s advices.

The biggest love advice is not to follow other’s advice when it comes to love. They may be right.They may be wrong. But surely they won’t know what’s best for you. That only you can distinguish. We can’t stop people from talking ill about others or their trying to poke their noses into other’s business, but we can decide never ever to listen to others and only to your heart. Well, it’s our life. And whether you make a right decision or a wrong decision, you are the one to deal with them, not others.  People are there to make you feel low, to ruin to mood, to piss you off, to make you cry, to hurt you and to wantedly annoy you. So never take up their words in love.

Some people (especially men), ask for more and more of girls and fun. And less and less of love. There are a lot of people(both men and women) who end up doing mistakes like swinging, partying with unkown people, betraying parents and also their partners,etc. But look at the ratio of “the caught red-handed” cases.

It is about 98% of women who end up getting busted. That too at the time of getting married or settling for some serious stuff. Look at the men. They are 100 times much more corrupted than women. There is a survey which says men think about intercourse more than 78 times a week and women less than 12 times a week. They are much more perverted and the things they do is untolerable and unmentionable. Yet, they happily get away with stuff. How about their lives getring ruined too in tie with the girls. After all, both of them do the same mistakes(men do much more),so it is only fair that both deserve the same sort of punishment and embarrasement.

So, girls. It’s time to create a new trend. Start preparing evidences too. Guys can easily get caught as that is what they think 24 hours a day. When a girl who thinks vulgarly only around only 12 times a week is capable of getting busted so easily, then it is a cake walk to trap men who do nothing else except for this. Plan carefully. Technology is on your side. Use it wisely without getting yourself into a problem. If you think your guy is not being true or is showing symptoms which resemble the “break-up” symptoms, then it’s time to use your weapon. Show them what is girl-power!

Love comes with a price. You get rewarded for being a true lover. And obviously the vice verse too happens, you know.

We blame the government that they are not fit to do things in a just and honest way without corruption. Before that indian men must ask themselves if they had been very just in their personal lives. If you are not right yourself, then why expect justice from others?

Sheetal, Priya, Neha, Rita,…………… Are the names of the girls that were cheated and dumped by you flashing on your mind? If the love is not perfect, then you can move on. But men here, take this as a hobby. To ruin every pretty girl’s life!

You should actually overhear the conversations boys have between their friends. “There is this damn hot chick in the next class. Man I wanna enjoy her.” And then goes a vulgar description about her. The next day he approaches this girl with a bunch of roses and sings poems about her like,”Seriously, you are the most wonderful person I have ever met. I swear on my mom, I will not ditch you. I swear on you that I will talk to my parents about marriage as soon as we get to finish our studies”. And then the girl falls flat for the guy thinking,”Oh, what an honest guy! I must accept him as my life partner.” And she falls into the pit. And the girl trusts the guy from the bottom of her heart, lives sincerely to him. Meanwhile, the guy carefully plans when to call her over when his parents are not at home and he along with his friends hide this secret cam in the corner of the room with a clear view. Apart from that there are these intimate pictures, messages and stuff which the guy keeps in store. An still, the worst part is simultaneously he plans to hook another hot chick from another classroom, and another hot chick from another class room and so on. He would have short-listed some 10 girls in his “next target” list.

Meanwhile this innocent girl falls a prey to his trap,and guess what?? Before she knows it, her pictures are all over the net. And now this guy goes about continuing to vulgarly describe the girl to his friends not even ashamed that certain things are supposed to be kept private. And one point of time the guy tells his friends, “Hey man, am all bored with the same old sheetal. I wanna try Ritu.” And the history repeats all over again.

Meanwhile, he breaks up with this girl and starts black-mailing her with her stuff. The most horrible part is that even the guy’s friends start black-mailing her not even a bit ashamed that she was their best friend’s girl. And there are still cases where the girl’s marriage gets ruined and she commits suicude unable to bear the shame. There are even some more cases where these jobless guys track down these girls who apparently would have been married with kids. They start blackmailing these women too. There is no end to a man’s lust!

But guys remember this. You too will have a family in the future. You have a mom, maybe a sister, in the future, a wife and daughter. Things can never be the same. You might get into a trap someday too.