Love, Dating and Relationships

Before getting into the details about how to actually go about helping women out from traps, we need to know what are the problems that they are going through. What does it refer to in this text by saying ‘wrong men’? Well literally speaking, most of the men, to be accurate 99% of them are behind physical relationship with a woman more than marriage, committment and love. So how to eradicate this 99% population and choose someone in the 1%?

The latest trend which goes in a sequence, as everybody knows is: proposing-dating-flirting-convincing the girl for intimacy-getting laid-taking videos-breaking up-putting the videos on the net-blackmailing for further physical relationship.

This is the exact chain that is being followed in the lives of almost all the women, especially in India. The final stage in the above sequence is the worst part. Men have this tendancy of completely destructing and devastating the lives of the girls whom they have used already, so that they do not get to live happily with someone else. So, girls who fall in this trap try to escape or recover. But sadly it is not so easy for them. This is such a critical situation where the girl is forced to be intimate with the guy whom she trusted so much. She has to stay intimate and follow his commands without any other option in spite of knowing he is no good any more. And more videos and pictures of hers get recorded and she ends up providing him with more and more evidence.

So, there are a lot of women who are trapped in this exact scenario and are desperate to come out of this hell. In fact there are a few other women who are forced into an extra marital relationship by their ex-boyfriends. This is an even worse situation with the husband’s knowing more than the parents. Either way her life would get blown into smithereens, whether her husband comes to know about this or not.

So, what is the solution for this particular disgusting problem? How to come out of this critical situation? Should they bear the embarrassment and tell somebody about it? Should they tell the parents? Will it be a good idea for the victim to tell her husband that she thought a guy was good, but he ended up having her evidence and he is still continuing to blackmail her? Will her husband understand? Or should she take some legal action? Will telling close friends do some good?

Kindly do not follow any of the above ideas, if you were planning to do any. All the above would only worsen the situation. Parents can never tolerate the fact that their daughter betrayed them. Husbands would straight away end up filing for a divorce without any further enquiry about it. Going to legal authorities, especially India would invite more trouble as Indian police officers would undoubtedly exploit the situation and try to get the woman into their traps after knowing the details. Or even worse, you can get filed for indulging in prostitution. Men are the same. So better not take that decision. Telling friends and asking them for solution may not be appropriate as they might spread this out, or even worse, they can start avoiding you thinking that you are ‘bad’.

The only solution is to FLEE. If you are a single, there isn’t any problem. Just apply for a job in another state or a country and escape from the demon. If in case you are married, then try convincing your husband to find a job in another place as far as possible from where you are staying now. There is no way by which you can get rid of any evidence that he has. All that which can be done is to flee away from the place and to ensure that he doesn’t track you by any means after that. Once you are out of sight, then you are obviously out of mind as well. Men wouldn’t bother much and waste their time finding a woman who is highly impossible to find. Who would want to waste their time in searching your whereabouts when they could be busy plotting another plan to trap another unfortunate girl?

Reading a girl’s mind is not as difficult as people say it is. All the facts about a woman’s heart being unfathomable is just a myth. Women are very simple and straight forward beings, in fact. All women, universally desire the same thing without any diversity. According to the psychology of women, “starting from day 1 of her life as a kid, till what is known as the saturation point, they desire being the most desirable woman on earth”. And the book of psychology of women adds the fact, “they will never accept this statement, either!”.

When choosing a perfect wife, every man has to keep in his mind that women, like men having feelings and emotions. But these feelings and emotions, like men are not lusty. They just have an intention to be the center of attraction and the most fantasized and fascinated woman ever and they could go to any extents to attain that. So when does this stop?

There are three criteria for that. The first one is when a girl gets committed by heart, soul and body. Even then, her intentions are just visibly reduced, but not completely absent. So, the boyfriend needs to make sure that she gets abundant praises from him, so that she doesn’t care about the rest of the guys praising her.

The second one is when she starts aging. Aging can kill a woman’s pride. So does it kill her youth and also her desires to be the heart throb. She learns to live with her age.

The third one is when she is born ugly and with severe inferiority complex or when she meets with a terribly accident and becomes disfigured. Women beloning to this category, hate men and ignore men. The reason is not because they are different and they are angels, but because their desires go unfulfilled. So they camouflage their hurt feelings saying that they hate men and their absurd comments over women. Even aging women begin to rant about men and their unruly behavior towards women, only because they regret that their turn is over. They wouldn’t have complained the same in their teens for sure. So, the dismangled young women are always silent and ignore the others, especially men. But if accidently, they hear some guy call them pretty(sarcastically and if they miss the sarcasm), you can never fail to see the little smile on their faces.

So this is all about women. There are not attracted towards lust anyday like men. It is the Y chromosome that makes all the difference. So, when you get committed to a girl, please don’t abandon her for the fact that she has had a crush before, or because she had winked at someone. They are not robots. All that matters is how she behaves and to what extent she is committed after the proposal. When it is excused world wide for men being lust-minded always and running parallel relationships and extra-marital affairs, you can certainly excuse your girl for doing just a quater of your mistake.

 This might indeed be the most sought out question by all the women folks out there. But here is a solution.

You will need:

• A will to never give in that easily
• A slightly suspecting nature
• His contacts (including his parents)
• A friend or a parent to guide

Step1:

You see this really good lad, but you also know that men cheat. But you need to settle down with somebody at some point of time. So, when this guy asks you out, make sure you don’t accept his proposal immediately. We need to investigate what sort of a chartecter he is.

Step2:

Get all his contacts. Very important of them all should be his parents. If this guy is playing around with you, he might not be willing to let you know about his parents’ contact number. He might not give his friends’ or colleagues’ number either, if he has got a bad reputation. You can rule him out with this. Make sure you call up and confirm everyone’s numbers. He could be lying!

Step3:

As far as a girl is concerned, her parents need to be extremely understanding. So they might need to be willing to help you out, if they are really concerned for your feelings. Or else take the help of a friend or your siblings. A guy with no intentions of real love or marrying you would definitely fear getting involved with your parents. So check to see if he really is willing to meet your parents.

Step4:

Ask about his nature and past life to all his classmates or colleagues. If he’s bad, remember that his friends would never give away his filthy secrets to you. The reason is men are really united and find contentment in cheating a girl and watching a girl being cheated. Ask a lot of girls in his workplace or his class personally. Some might give right as well as wrong information.

Step5:

Be specific about meeting his parents or atleast his sister or any other female relative. Some one might have the heart to say that he is really rotten or he is really a gem of a person.

Step6:

If your guy survives all these tests and still asks for your hand, then you can peacefully settle down with the right man. Make sure he doesn’t get wise over you for any reason, if he’s bad.

How to make him feel special? It is very important that your guy things you are ideal to him. And that is not all that easy. You need to convince him that you are ideal. So lets take a look at all the things you need to do in order to pocket him in your kitty.

1. Take his side always.
2. Looking into his eyes as he talks will tell him that you are listening
3. Do his work like driving, etc. when he is tired.
4. Show him that you trust him from your deep heart
5. Tell him that you would never alter anything about him (character, likes, dislikes, hobbies, etc) but do change him unconsciously without his realizing it.
6.  Don’t argue or interrupt while he’s talking
7. Be his greatest fan and friend for his entire lifetime
8. Start switching over to his tastes like listening to his kind of music, watching his favorite sport or channel or eating his favorite dish, even if you hate it.
9. Most important of all, respect him. Respect his male ego and his manliness
10. Laugh even if his joke is dumb

It might seem unfair that you do all the sacrifices, and he tends to be the same and enjoys the same amount. But things will change over time. Once you show your guy that you would do anything for his happiness, there would finally be a day where he would start doing all of the above in return to you. Guys always take time, but once they bloom into a true love, that is the best love ever.

How to differentiate between a crush and a true love? Everybody would have discussed this topic at least once with friends. Crush and Love are like two poles apart. So never confuse the terms with each other.

The key fact one must know here is that you can never say initially if what you are undergoing is a crush or a love. In other words, love starts with a crush! Remember the butter-fly feeling in the stomach or the unusual sudden jolt in your body when you spot your crush? This is the exact sensation and symptoms of a crush, not love! You can’t stop thinking about what happened earlier that day and her smiles goes on and on inside your head. You secretly spy on your crush and begin to blush when she spots your spying on her. This is what we call as a crush. This may or may not turn into a love!

 Now what is love? Love comes with age. When your crush begins to ripen it yields a fruit called love. You no more have the initial excitement. You no more have the feelings of butterfly. The feelings that you are undergoing now are much more intense. It sort of pains your heart. When you are still in a crush, you end up realizing that life would be so beautiful with your crush. But, when you are in love, you end up realizing that you have no life without your love. The feelings of love is painful. It’s no longer exciting or thrilling. It pains. It brings tears to your eyes. You feel as if your heart is being crushed from within. You cannot bear it when your loved one is in pain that you would feel like stealing it from them and enduring it yourself.

 Any day love is better than the crush. There is no first-sight love. Everything in the beginning starts as a crush. All crushes fade away, except one which matures into a beautiful, paining, yet comforting love.

Are you avoiding dates with your man fearing the exposure of dry and chapped lips? Here is what you can do to have the world’s most tempting and dangerously seductive lips.

Lips require regular lubrication, else they will flake and peel. Never ever use a lip gloss unless it is totally ncessary. Substitute lip gloss with lip balms.

Did you run out of lip balms? That shouldn’t be a problem if your kitchen is kully loaded.

You can use fresh ghee or a small scoop of butter to nourish your lips. Honey is another ready made lip balm. Olive oil acts as a beautiul lip gloss, yet soothing your lips.

These should do the magic trick when you are out on a date!

I was just curious to see if we can make money out of love? If yes is the answer then I guessed that would be the best method to get this whole world love sick. On a broader perspective we can make money if we get hooked up with someone who is financially better than our current state. This is one simple thing how one can make money out of love. So marry some one who is really rich and you get settled and even when you divorce you can claim your share. This is how most of the celebrity’s spouses are freaking rich even after they get formally divorced from their partners. The next best option is to marry someone who is in a foreign land. For instance when you are dying hard to get visa for jobs abroad and you want to relocate to your dream land you can follow this simple step. All that you got to do is get married to some one out there and you can easily get your citizenship visa and thereby getting your permanent relocating permit. You can also divorce your that person once you reach your dream destiny. Love generally strengthens all your potentials and can help to reach peaks. So try getting support and back up from your love and can use that to sharpen your career. Two brains can definitely think more than what one can. So accept to this fact and be receptive to take suggestions from your partner.

To be lovely and seductive is not the only way to be the best wife. You need to be what your husband thinks it is to be his ideal wife. Either be it love or sensuality, most women assume that they know what a man would like from her rather than investigating what he really likes. Not all people are the same and have the same tastes. So, it is better to find out rather than ending up at the wrong side of him.

For example, you think all men like chicken, but your man may not. So it is quite necessary to find out what happens to be his favourite dish. You might think men like seductive clothes, but he may not like you to wear them out in the public. You might think men would prefer women who look like super-models, straight from the spa. But your man might like you to be natural.

These are the common mistakes made by most wives. Assumptions! Never assume things with your partner. Ask it straight or observe his ways and then act to be the needful.

This is a problem a lot of couples are going through. They get married, find themselves in a whole lot of responsibilities and having children and finance and stuff. There is absolutely no time for the old love. Wiped out, tired and barely make it to bed at night.. “Where did my relationship go? Where did my wife go?”.

Ok. Choose your wife before she was your kid’s mom. Put your wife first. Remember her? So many people get married and they think that marriage is just popping out kids, responsibility and stuff, househols work and job…

Remember that person you wanted to be with? Honesty, you think your biggest responsibility is being a parent. You are to love your children and provide a stable home. And you cannot do that if  you forget about your wife and neglect your relationship. You got to remember each other first. I know it sounds harsh, but kids come second. What they need to know is that you love them and they need you both to be there for them.

So how can you stay romantic? Well, what did you do in the beginning? Did you date? Did you go to a movie? Did you have fun? Start doing that again!

Buy her flowers and pretend that you are dating and not married. Do little things to show her that you still care for her. Does she like flowers? Does she like you to brew her up a coffee in bed? Does she like to hear you say “I love you”?

What did you do before? What did she like about you before?What special things did you do before you had kids, responsibilities, household and stuff? Those are the things you need to do now in order to rekindle the old flame.

Doesn’t your soul mate believe in souls and gods. But on the contrary, do your folks follow sacred beliefs? Here is how we get them going together.

You Will Need:

• A meeting time
•  A meeting place, preferably public
•  Newspaper
• A respect for both the sides
• Diplomacy
• A credit card or cheque

 Step 1:

 Support your partner regarding his opinions about “ I need proof for existence of God”.

Step 2:

Give a brief description about“evangelicals” to your partner. Evangelicals believe in spreading the Gospel and have faith regarding the existence of the Lord.

Step 3:

Arrive at the restaurant 15 minutes early. This gives you the time and position as the host and allows you time for a quick drink so that you can catch your breathe before the grand meeting.

Step 4:

Give a warm greeting to your parents and avoid introducing your partner such as, “Mom, Dad, this is Ben, the atheist!”

Step 5:

Be sure to sit at the table in kicking distance of any leg.

 Step 6:

Previously that morning, make sure that you’ve read the newspaper so as to steer the conversation lightly towards entertainment and sports.

 Step 7:

When dinner arrives and your parents want to say a prayer, ask your partner to lead them in a small prayer even if he finds it tough. Help your partner prepare explanations for atheism and make sure that they don’t sound too rude, hurting your parents’ feelings.

Step 8:

 Your partner is an atheist—no sense pretending otherwise—and you must support him of his personal conviction even if you or your parents don’t agree with it.

Step 9:

Pay with check or a credit card instead of cash because “In God We Trust” is on all the cash.