7 Things to say when you are fighting with him/her
1. I am sorry!!!!
This is the first thing that you got to be telling once you realise that things are getting a bit out of hand
2. I love you
Saying this melts anyone’s heart. Especially when you say it when you are a fight can help to cool down a bit
3. It is my mistake. I feel too guilty for that
Putting the blame on your partner only adds on fuel to the burning fire. But if you have the presence of mind to take up the blame, even if it was not your fault, can actually convince him/her. Later on after the fight dies you can explain things gently to them
4. It’s not your problem! It’s ours!
A good partner always shares equally with both, the pain and the happiness. If there is a problem, saying this will show them that you are there for him/her in any worst case.
5. Try to understand from my point of view, too, honey!
Saying this makes your partner stop for a second to empathise with you.
6. Let’s take a break!
Put a full stop to your arguments. It takes two to argue. So if you stop, then there stops your fight, too.
7. I don’t need any help. I just want to talk to you
Showing him/her how important getting them convinced im that subject could actually flatter them