Love, Dating and Relationships

1. Trying to change him-  

The male ego is a girl’s biggest disadvantage. Men hate the fact that you are snooping around them, trying to change them. But for all times sake, don’t stop yourself from trying to change him as that could result in a parallel relationship or a lifeless relationship. The difference lies in how you must conduct the changing process. It is simple in words, but not that simple in reality. Yes, it is with love you can change him. Be gentle and show him that you are not happy with him rather than forcing him and setting him targets. That simply won’t work!

       2.        Trying to show him that you are better than him-

Don’t ever do this! This could seriously make him want to throw you off. Being better than them, especially a woman, is something that a man can never tolerate or digest. Unless and until he accepts the fact all by himself, he would never give up his ego. For instance, if your guy is the hot stud in the locality and if you can’t put up with women hitting on him daily, don’t show him back that even you are a dream girl for every man in this world and that you are no less.

        3.       Trying to change a conversation for every 10seconds-

He expects you to listen to him and appreciate what he is saying to you. So never interrupt until he finishes or don’t snub him by changing the topic.

        4.     Expecting him to react like a woman-

This will never happen until the world destroys. Men will react like men and won’t waste their time shedding tears over the mess they have landed up in. So you can try to act smart instead by showing that you are still a tender rose bud called a woman.

        5.      Refusing to please him on bed-

Whether you are happy or not, that is the least of his botherations. All he needs from you is your body more than your soul. Women complain, but still stay with them if they are not satisfied with the physical relationships. Men don’t complain. They will either throw you out or else have a secret affair behind your back. This is the first on their mind when they get committed to you.