Love, Dating and Relationships

Let us talk about how to woo a girl and see what are the steps that you need to flatter her and own her. The following articles would stress on the dos and don’ts with a guy. Primarily the first impression that we make is the most important that has to be taken into consideration. Let’s take various scenarios into consideration. Let us assume that you got stunned looking at a girl in your near vicinity. May be she is studying in your own college or is working in your organization. Then it is a cake walk guys. Love is just like any kind of magnetic force. The distance is directly proportional to the magnitude of the love. So the more close you are, the more easily you can pocket her. Don’t ever rush up and create a bad impression. Unless she is a despot this will not work out. Give yourself enough time to make the perfect hit. Don’t show that you are too cheesy and flirt to her. Women like rude and arrogant men rather than flirts who try to get her on bed the first day. So first try getting into the convenient zone. Friendship can be a very good move before actually getting into the real commitment. This would also give you time to analyze what you are hitting is really worth it. Don’t start friendship with blunt intros. Make sure that you have some valid reason as to why you are approaching that person and let your first talk be very appealing and catchy. All that you need is zeal and hard work here. So talk to her and grow the talk. Make sure you talk to her at least a few sentences every day and all your talks be sensible and make sure she enjoys your company. So once when you get into this comfort zone its time to take the big leap. You need to make this relationship more cozy and loving. Show her that you care for her. Women love people who care for her. But make sure its not just that normal care but go one step ahead so that you remain in her mind and disturb her sleep. Being active is not enough, try being proactive. Your every action should show her that you care for her like hell. First guys do this religiously and love guru would dictate you with the proceeding steps. Good luck.

I really wanted to emphasize on the dirty culture that prevails amongst IT companies. You would have known this survey that a thousand ton of condom was taken from a mnc sewage. I can understand exaggeration and fake stories prevails which blows up things and becomes media’s top stories. But we need to get into mind that there won’t be fake stories without actual pollen. So there are things going around these IT giants. I have gone through these instances since I work in IT industry too. It really astonishes me when married people and committed fellows are looking out for options. I was really astounded to see a pair being intimate in the car park and I asked my team lead if we can do something. My Team lead said we cannot do anything since that was happening with mutual consent. But I never believed this until I saw myself. There are so many reasons why this is happening and last year’s hot topic was that IT young women said no to extra marital affairs. One of the main reason is people are just bad and are desperate longing for more. So we can never help this sector because this is going to remain sick forever.  The others are trapped in an emotional trauma where they get caught in emotional imbalances.

So stay away from all tempting situations and always remember you have someone special for you at home. When you find someone making attempts towards you try to avoid it at the earliest. Don’t let it grow and frown later. I am not really sure about the other sectors but IT is on its peak. BPO’s are the mother cause which kick started this evolution which slowly moved into the IT domain. Most of the BPO’s operate in the night and people become victim for this cozy timing. It really puts me in odd situation when I get comments from readers asking about their extra marital affairs and wanting to know if that is correct. The worst part is I am emails from women too. They too have their own reasons for switching partners. So the lesson for the day is do have a periodic check on your spouse and it is no harm in having a clear picture. If your person is an IT employee then periodic checks should be changed to regular checks. Happy loving.

Everything in life is so uncertain. Recently I have been discovering more into myself trying to find out what is happiness and what makes me happy in life and I am yet to reach an answer. I thought it was a wrong decision of leaving me old organization and getting into this new one. But I don’t think I would have made it to Malaysia if I had been there. So now I am assuming that everything happens for a good cause. Life amazes me. Everything looks like a puzzle and this damn love thing had always been on top of the list. On top of all 2012 is one scary thing which threatens us saying that everything is going to end? Then why are we fighting like dogs? Why are we struggling so much? Yet let’s not get lazy doing nothing and finally putting the blame on 2012. So focusing into life again, can anyone tell me what happiness is? I want people to pause for a moment and define happiness, is it the state of no discomfort and pain? Or is it the moment of being in your loved one’s arm, or is that the first time you see your kid walking without any support? Or is it being the richest man on earth? Or is it that moment of getting surrounded and served by a dozen blonde babes? I know these are not the answers for sure. So happiness is something very distinct and variable.

So let’s first discover it and try embracing the same.  I am going to tell you how uncertain love can become. Always remember this golden phrase ‘love does not break, it fades ‘. There can be a million reasons for that. One main reason is that people swing and try for better options. Try not to cheat your beloved and also don’t get cheated. I had one of my reader telling me that she is cheated very badly and that the guy flicked her own and sister and was caught red hand when he was making out with her. It was so sick and I can understand the agony of that girl. I don’t want to reveal her name as she asked me not to. It was her mistake for trusting that shit so much. Always do double check and also do multiple checks if needed. Never blindly trust anyone. It is always good that we check them because it does not just give you clarity but also a sense of satisfaction.

Guys thanks for making my site a big hit and I am very proud to this share news. Yes, we made it. Our site has got page rank 2. I am overwhelmed that our site is having regular visitors which have yielded more than 5000 visitors buzzing into our articles. My apologies for all my readers as I am not able to answer to all of your queries. But love guru would definitely read your comments and send you back appropriate suggestions to make your love better. So come fall in love, get up at heaven.