Love, Dating and Relationships

This is one of the most interesting shows that you can catch on Discovery Travel and Living . A show which basically deals with newly wed couples who feel that their love’s dead. But fortunate for them, the love expert is right on track to provide them with the most exciting love challenges and tasks so that they revive their old, lost love in a matter of two weeks.

The first step of the show is the couple in need is given a week’s time to collect evidences about each other without their knowledge as to what drives them nuts. In one particular show, the girl’s complaint about the guy was that he was a complete jester and ends up embarrasing her in the public. So she has to collect evidences of his jester-like activities without his knowledge through videos. The guy’s complaint about the girl was that she had become a cold fish and she’s never romantic like what she was before. So he sets out to collect evidences of how she refuses to be lovely to him.

By the end of the week, the couple submits its evidences to the love expert and he reveals to both of them as to what their partner feels is wrong with them. In the next step, he prescribes a remedy for both of them. The Guy was asked to act polite and elegant and the girl was asked to pole-dance every night for a week.

Apart from these, the couple had to undergo varying other sets of difficult love challenges and by the end of this 2 week treatment they were as good as new.

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When you have been asked this question as to who your ultimate person would be and given choices such as mother, father, brother, sister, friend, son, daughter, husband or wife, each of you would come up with different answers having different valid reasons.

The correct answer according to a survey would be your life-partner. The reason for this is that:

• Parents : They are equally important without whom you are more of a nobody today. But your parents would stick up for you maximum for 30 years, after which they would begin to age, which means, they would add on to your burdens,instead.
•  Siblings : Your own brother or sister is fun to be with until a certain saturation point. And this saturation point is till they find their own partners and start their own family. After that, first priority goes to his/her life partner and children and not to you anymore.
• Friends : Friendship is a sort of a two-way game. Most of the friends are there to suck up your stuff when your competent and shrug off their shoulders when your in need. So friends are there to accompany you when your bored and ready to push you into the pit owing to various reasons (Survival of the fittest).
• Children : Children like your parents stay with you till they need your support. Once they are all by themselves with their own partners to care for, they consider you to be an extra luggage. So you land up in an old age home when you are all fragile and withered.

So who’s remaining? And why are they unique?

• Soul-mate: Your life partner is also called your soul mate. Not your mom or dad or anybody else above. The reason is that because they have the power of enlightening your souls for the next 50-60yrs from the time of your marriage. No other relationship lasts so long. Its a very long journey and can easily get tiresome if not with the right partner or if not taken proper care of your journey together. He/She is the person you are going to be with till you die and most probably will be the last person you see before you die (if you go first). So why don’t you make it a beautiful and a truthful journey, caring for each other, giving up for each other,  surprising each other and making each other proud? It’s a beautiful life waiting to be shared with a wonderful partner.  

The one thing that was constantly wavering on my mind lately was about the horoscope match that we follow before marriage. Is it really worth it? What is the power of twelve squares which tells you a lot about your planetary positions? Are we really bound to planetary force? Do you think sun and the moon can help us decide our life partners? The worst part is the western culture which relates humans with air, water and fire. They say water and fire do not go together. It amazes me but still who knows there might be some kind of hidden truth in it. It still looks like a maze to me. To unveil this jigsaw puzzle I researched a lot of magazines and surfed internet as much as I can. To my astonishment there are a lot of supporting evidences which proves these things to be true. According to the Indian horoscopes the person’s birth is drawn with twelve squares which depict the planetary positions at that point of time. The future can also be predicted in accordance with the movements of those concerned planets. If what nostradamus predicted came true then this horoscope might also have some truth hidden in it.

But the sick thing is people just believe in this so badly and wait for a person and eventually miss a lot of people who cross their life. I have seen women sitting unmarried just because they had to wait for some one who can fit her perfectly with horoscopes. This is so stupid. Another orthodox group of people consider women who were born on Tuesdays as sinners and when they get married might cause some harm to the in-laws. So what we literates must keep in mind is that gives a damn to orthodox customs and be practical. It is love that decides a couple’s life and nothing else. I wish every reader of this article understands this and be Lucky couple.

They say a woman came from the rib of a man. So shouldn’t she also be his backbone, wiping away his pains, kindling confidence, igniting the lost-strength, or reviving the faded happiness?

“Yeah. That’s true. But all the above automatically happens when she sleeps with me. She needn’t waste my time giving boring lectures”. I can hear this exact line going through every guy who read the first line of the blog.

So thats all a guy expects out of a girl. Who wants to waste time and money on a toy thats meant to give only physical happiness and nothing else?

There’s a whole lot of them waiting for an opportunity, standing aimlessly on the roads in India, commenting on the women who pass by, irrespective of their ages, just to annoy them and find ultimate joy out of it. When asked why, they answer back saying that they know for sure that no girl is going to fall head-over-heels in love with them and satisfy their needs, so they could etch out atleast 10% happiness when compared to the 100% happiness which they get out of getting laid.

Wicked, eh?

Look around you? What do you get to see? Pairs holding hands, head to head and having cozy chats and so on.

Everything is fine. Everything is so beautiful and fresh at first. And slowly it starts becoming lifeless. You can see the same guy whom you say 2 months back visitng the cofee shop with another new chick and sometimes with the old one you remember seeing earlier. He can’t risk the chance of breaking up with the old one as she might come in handy when the new one’s out of town.

She’s got all the trust in the world on him. But when a friend asks him about it, he gives the most slap-winning answer saying that it’s not a sin and all guys do it in the world and love’s different from fliritng and getting laid with many women. Moreover he encourages his friends or younger brothers to follow his foot steps by giving them the address of the “awesome place”

And what more? He would have been married to his so-called love, but when he gets the golden opportunity and hike in his career to go abroad, he makes sure that he doesn’t take his wife along, atleast for the first 6 months. Now he’s a free bird having the most envious life any guy would literally crave for. Going to the spa, going to a strip-tease bar, hanging out with blonde bikini babes on the beach and what not?

What happened to all the lovely words and promises he made? Doesn’t her innocent face flash everytime he gets tempted to hit the sack with a bomb? Or isn’t he worried that the same could happen to his sister or daughter in the future when some other guy with a typical attitude breaks the same kind of trust as he’s doing to his wife now? Or what would have been of him if his father had cheated his mom the same way?

Lust ruins love. World would have been heaven if lust had been as unidirectional as love is. This multidirectional lust towards all women in this world is the biggest worry every woman has.

And after doing every single mischief in his work place, he slips back home like an innocent kitten hungry for milk and starts cuddling his wife. ‘Get your dirty hands off me, you two-faced traitor’ I wish every girl had the courage to say this to men and walk-off forever.

But what can be done to wipe the pains of a woman. “Can’t live with them. Can’t live without them!”

Have you girls ever wondered how men can so easily glide in love life and get what they want eventually? You know what they want from women, don’t you? If you do, then this blog is worth a read.

Lets never blame any other country other than India. They have a way with dealing with love and making love. And this “them“ implies both men and women, ofcourse.

If you had seen the movie “Hitch” starring Will Smith, then recall the scene where Albert seeks the guidance of Alex (Will Smith) to win over his lady love and also the leading executive, Allegra Cole. Its such a touching scene where he tells Alex that its unbearable that the love of his life is waking up with the wrong man every morning, and yet he wished that she were happy. This is the context that i want to highlight in this blog.

Outside India, irrespective of being a man or a woman, there are no differences and no issues concerning their love lives. The man accepts a woman even though he knows that she’s been with a lot of other men. He accepts her even after knowing that she been intimate with a million other men. The only criteria here is LOVE and not whether she’s as good as new.

But what do we have here in store for the women in India? Indian men wait upto 28yrs, have all the fun they want, cheat all the girls they want to (and give the excuse that the girls were lust-minded, and so its not their fault), use love as a license to walk into the bedroom, spill money on call-gals and finally they end up asking their mom and dad to search for a nice, decent, traditional gal who doesn’t even know the spelling of sex and who is reserved and timid so that he doesn’t have to endure being possesive when she chats with men.

And in turn when a girl just smiles or says ‘hi’ all by herself to a guy, there is a huge jubilliation that some dirty slut has asked him for a night ou.

Wow! There is no other word to express this. This is the reason why India is still an underdog. While Indian  guys waste their time planning which girl to attack upon next, men abroad are planning how to keep their neighbourhoods clean. Physical relationship is not on their mind 24 x 7 like how it is here.

Just ponder on this thought.

I was just curious to see if we can make money out of love? If yes is the answer then I guessed that would be the best method to get this whole world love sick. On a broader perspective we can make money if we get hooked up with someone who is financially better than our current state. This is one simple thing how one can make money out of love. So marry some one who is really rich and you get settled and even when you divorce you can claim your share. This is how most of the celebrity’s spouses are freaking rich even after they get formally divorced from their partners. The next best option is to marry someone who is in a foreign land. For instance when you are dying hard to get visa for jobs abroad and you want to relocate to your dream land you can follow this simple step. All that you got to do is get married to some one out there and you can easily get your citizenship visa and thereby getting your permanent relocating permit. You can also divorce your that person once you reach your dream destiny. Love generally strengthens all your potentials and can help to reach peaks. So try getting support and back up from your love and can use that to sharpen your career. Two brains can definitely think more than what one can. So accept to this fact and be receptive to take suggestions from your partner.

One should love people and use materialistic things; instead people have started to use people and love materialistic things. Isn’t this a powerful statement? Don’t ever search for love poems and send it to your beloved. Every individual is unique and a universal dialogue won’t suit all. So try writing your own poems. Your love might be very unique and special. So try phrasing a poem or a lovely note focusing on his/her uniqueness and I am sure this would work out big time. Leaving romantic notes in your loved one’s bed would be a very good idea to impress the person. Don’t let your love fade. Always keep it young and lively. Time is no bar for love. You can always revive it and make it fresh. Don’t wait for your partner to take the first step. Participation is more important than winning. So first give an attempt rather than pondering if it would yield you good results. Give your love a surprise gift. Take him/her for a candle light dinner. Use aromatic oils and give your partner a soothing massage. A relaxing massage would surely make your love crave for you. Roses are always a good symbol of love. Gift your love a bunch of roses and you might end up in an intimate night. Always focus on giving rather than taking and automatically you can reap the benefits. Tattoo your love’s name to make your guy/gal flat. Tattooing is the utmost thing that you can do and has always been a proven good technique. Decorate your bed with flowers and get heart shaped pillows which can carry pictures of you both. Fill your bedroom with your intimate pictures because that would remain there for ever and would trigger your love hormones. I will be back with more hot tips and until then happy loving.

What is so great about love? Why do we have to break our head on this silly topic? Is it so important that we need to have a perfect partner for life? Let us do a small research on how this love originated. Let me start this with the story of evolution. God was so bugged up and wanted to do something really challenging in life. He created man, and then he thought that his new invention should be superseded with something much more complicated and abstruse. Then he created the most complicated thing ever on this earth ‘women’ and he regretted for his action.

He created woman from man’s chest. May be this is the reason why it aches your heart whenever you get hurt by your love. He named them Adam and eve. Ad, just like the name suggests, men always like to ‘add’ a lot of babes in their life. Eve is good only in the evenings and the dusk. May that’s the reason why always love women in dark. So these two were badly in love with each other and had no problems in them.

 Let us analyze the reasons why Adam and eve never had any problem.

• They were making love most of the time as they hardly had any other recreation.
• There were no other chicks for Adam to hit on.
• Eve did not have any possessive feeling since there were no other choices for him.
• Thank god they dint have kids.
• Next door Cathy did not have expensive jewels which pissed of eve.
• There was no Rolls Royce which eve pestered Adam to get one.
• They did not have expensive outfits like ed hardy and were nude all the time.
• There were no in-laws to disturb eve.

So there were a lot of reasons why they never had any problem, but now things are completely different. We have lot of intrusions to whack our happiness. Lot of triggers that can fuel up fights and ego’s and make our life miserable. Comprehending this whole concept we can clearly say that life partner is something very trivial in life and worth spending time in letting the right one in.