Before getting into the details about how to actually go about helping women out from traps, we need to know what are the problems that they are going through. What does it refer to in this text by saying ‘wrong men’? Well literally speaking, most of the men, to be accurate 99% of them are behind physical relationship with a woman more than marriage, committment and love. So how to eradicate this 99% population and choose someone in the 1%?
The latest trend which goes in a sequence, as everybody knows is: proposing-dating-flirting-convincing the girl for intimacy-getting laid-taking videos-breaking up-putting the videos on the net-blackmailing for further physical relationship.
This is the exact chain that is being followed in the lives of almost all the women, especially in India. The final stage in the above sequence is the worst part. Men have this tendancy of completely destructing and devastating the lives of the girls whom they have used already, so that they do not get to live happily with someone else. So, girls who fall in this trap try to escape or recover. But sadly it is not so easy for them. This is such a critical situation where the girl is forced to be intimate with the guy whom she trusted so much. She has to stay intimate and follow his commands without any other option in spite of knowing he is no good any more. And more videos and pictures of hers get recorded and she ends up providing him with more and more evidence.
So, there are a lot of women who are trapped in this exact scenario and are desperate to come out of this hell. In fact there are a few other women who are forced into an extra marital relationship by their ex-boyfriends. This is an even worse situation with the husband’s knowing more than the parents. Either way her life would get blown into smithereens, whether her husband comes to know about this or not.
So, what is the solution for this particular disgusting problem? How to come out of this critical situation? Should they bear the embarrassment and tell somebody about it? Should they tell the parents? Will it be a good idea for the victim to tell her husband that she thought a guy was good, but he ended up having her evidence and he is still continuing to blackmail her? Will her husband understand? Or should she take some legal action? Will telling close friends do some good?
Kindly do not follow any of the above ideas, if you were planning to do any. All the above would only worsen the situation. Parents can never tolerate the fact that their daughter betrayed them. Husbands would straight away end up filing for a divorce without any further enquiry about it. Going to legal authorities, especially India would invite more trouble as Indian police officers would undoubtedly exploit the situation and try to get the woman into their traps after knowing the details. Or even worse, you can get filed for indulging in prostitution. Men are the same. So better not take that decision. Telling friends and asking them for solution may not be appropriate as they might spread this out, or even worse, they can start avoiding you thinking that you are ‘bad’.
The only solution is to FLEE. If you are a single, there isn’t any problem. Just apply for a job in another state or a country and escape from the demon. If in case you are married, then try convincing your husband to find a job in another place as far as possible from where you are staying now. There is no way by which you can get rid of any evidence that he has. All that which can be done is to flee away from the place and to ensure that he doesn’t track you by any means after that. Once you are out of sight, then you are obviously out of mind as well. Men wouldn’t bother much and waste their time finding a woman who is highly impossible to find. Who would want to waste their time in searching your whereabouts when they could be busy plotting another plan to trap another unfortunate girl?